The secret? We chose to love each other every waking day. You know, some people think that forever is not possible. Because most of them think that forever is perfect. But nothing could ever be perfect, right? I was not a perfect and he wasn’t either. We just chose to believe in forever. So, you see what we’ve learned? Forever is giving one another unlimited chances to love you right everyday. 1
Nothing could ever be compared to the feeling of loving someone and being loved in return. But love, however good it is, sometimes can consume you. The problem arises when you lose yourself in the process, when you forget yourself. But how can someone love just right?
I was once told that, the one who loves the less controls the relationship. If so, in every couple, is it possible that one person loves more, and the other loves less?
Can you still remember the start of your relationship? We all do. It is overwhelming, exciting and makes us all feel hopeful. That after all the many dates, trial and errors and searching, looking and hoping, and social media mayhem, here he is, that one person you’ve been asking for. Finally you have someone to hold onto. Naturally, you will feel the need to nurture this relationship. You would want to be perfect. Be a perfect girlfriend or boyfriend, or perhaps be a perfect husband or wife. And no matter how skewed the reasons your partner gives, you would always want to try to understand.
It never always fails to amaze me, how much someone is willing to go to for the person they love. It is the greatest love, selfless and true. But don’t be blinded by the headlights. You are forgetting an essential thing in this equation; you. Remember this, love is a partnership. You can never love more, or love less if you love this person as well as you love yourself.
Someone take my tablet away from me.
one of my personal favourite moments
- CURRENT MOOD: STRESS
- LISTENING TO: STRESS
- FAVOURITE COLOUR: STRESS
- FAVOURITE FOOD: STRESS
- DREAM HOLIDAY: STRESS
I made it transparent
all I want to do is cry and sleep and not wake up until it all gets better